給在谷底的你
人在谷底可做幾件事
1.挖地洞? 一定有更低的地層
2.躺下 可發現更高不可測的遙遠
3.等全世界葉子落下? 從一數到死
4.用最後的電力傳簡訊給敵人要他?放心
5.感謝自己獨力完成葬禮
6.唱一首自己寫的歌 絕對live
7.呼一口 新鮮 歡愉
8 等待斷氣
9 繼續等待？
10 然後 放棄
這則短文是台灣作詞家許常德先生寫的。尤其欣賞第一個方法。在人生的谷底時,猶不忘很黑色的幽自己一默,看看還能再壞到啥程度。生性更促狹點兒的,會讓情況變得更糟,再探底限,然後安慰自己,已經很不錯了,往下好像還會更慘呢。當人陷於無可自拔的境遇時,好像突然會有一陣了然,有那麼一刻清楚地體認到人生的真諦,一種人在順風得意時,決然不會有的哲學穎悟。
當人有了這個被迫之下的頓悟,也就是開始能卸下痛苦重擔的時候了,你的腳步一點一點的輕盈了起來,有了攀岩的信心,慢慢的,你爬出了谷底。履上平地的你,對以前視為理所當然的景物,有了不一樣的心思。因為曾看過最醜的,現在無物不美,滿心感恩,對著清風明月,常覺飄飄如仙。你變得容易知足。
你不需要有詩人泰戈爾的文采,也可以寫下類似的感想「樂與憂精密地交織在一起。每一種痛苦,每一種焦愁,全都貫穿著快樂的絲縷。這個道理如果我們能了然,我們到那兒都會很平安。」因為重重地摔過,你明白了平安的可貴。因為受過陰騭人性的罪,你越發珍惜與人交往時,不帶利害,單純的善。那善是黑色織布中的金色絲縷,細緻地勾勒出了精美的,你的侧影。
原本平滑如化纖的生命織錦,逐漸有機混入了絲與麻,它還隱隱散發著安神的香氣,你穿上它,覺得舒服。別人看你亦是一派雍容。你現在站在屬於自己的高處了,穩穩地,遠離了可能的傷害。你開始回想在谷底時的自己,沒有那時的揪心扯肺,就沒有今天的平展舒眉,氣定神閑。恭喜你,你已確定走出了谷底。
還會跌入谷底嗎?會的,甚至是相同的谷底。但,這次你知道如何因應,你不用沾染泥污,就可輕易走出。「人情反覆,世路崎嶇。行不去,須知退一步之法;行得去,務加讓三分之功」,《菜根譚》教人在路走不通的時候,緩緩地,換種心境,越是焦急如困獸,越是白耗體力為自己挖了更深的洞,那就更看不到陽光了。退一步,韜光養晦,或許需要一段很長的時間,但你有了精力,當機會出現時,才能一躍而上。
行得通的時候,勿忘善念,更要懂得做人做事留有餘地的道理,給旁人,也給自己留下後路。最近走紅的大陸藝人小沈陽,有句噲炙人口的名言,他說：「什麼是善良呢?hao~ 看見別人家的牆要倒,咱們沒有能力去扶,但是咱們不推,這就是一種善良,別人在吃鹹菜喝粥,咱們在吃肉,咱們沒有能力分給別人一塊,但是咱們儘量不吧唧嘴,這也是一種善良。」
沒有修飾,土得掉渣,可卻真真實實地道出了,當人處於谷底時,最需要的東西,不是旁的,不是物質金錢上的援助,而只是善意。
祝福你,朋友。
it's heart thinking.
Can I fend off H1Ni virus with that? No, I'd better get a shot of vaccine for that.
What does it mean? To think positively?
"11:37":股市可不能再崩盤了.大家要樂觀,用念力,促使經濟好轉...
Marvelous thought, academic , terrific and correct...
Psychology tells us that behavior can be shaped up or down by learning.
裝傻裝瘋,久了就成了真傻真瘋.裝快樂的時間長了,就成了真快樂.所以即使你不成功,至少也要像成功者那樣思考和行動.
2.Pallen:您的笑話雖然有點低級,但是...粉..好笑!
At the Pearly Gates, they are met by St. Peter. He says, "Sisters, you all led such exemplary lives that the Lord is granting you six months to go back to earth and be anyone you wish to be."
The first nun says, "I want to be Sophia Loren."
And *poof* she's gone.
The second says, "I want to be Madonna
" and *poof* she's gone.
The third says, "I want to be Sara Pipalini.."
St. Peter looks perplexed. "Who?" he asked.
"Sara Pipalini," replies the nun.
St. Peter shakes his head and says, "I'm sorry, but that name just doesn't ring a bell."
The nun then takes a newspaper out of her habit and hands it to St. Peter .
St. Peter reads the paper and starts laughing. He hands it back to her and says, "No sister, the paper says it was the ' Sahara Pipeline' that was laid by 1,400 men in 6 months."
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I like to share with you my idea of lifestyle. A simplified material life///不必太多應接不暇, 眼花繚亂的物質 (那是苦惱)...足夠就好的衣食住行...
"Here is your oceanside condo, over there are the tennis courts, swimming pool, and two golf courses. If you need any refreshments, just stop by any of the many bars located throughout the area," said Peter.
"Heck, Gloria," the old man hissed when Saint Peter walked off, "we could've been here ten years ago if you hadn't heard about all that health food and low carbon living".